Discipling Sons

DISCIPLING SONS

Getting Started

Points before you start!

There are many things that need to be done before starting discipling our sons, but if we do them all perfectly, our sons will be all grown up! It will be too late. My son already can read. This fact in itself shook

Discipling Sons
Discipling Sons
Proverbs 4:1-4
Proverbs 4:5-9
Proverbs 4:10-13
Proverbs 4:14-19
Proverbs 4:20-23
Proverbs 4:24-27		 an Intro
Getting Started
Listening to Dad
Acquire Wisdom
Staying on the Path
The Two Paths
The Springs of Life
Body Participation

me up. This means he can read His Bible but probably doesn’t know how to sense God’s glory in it. Or if so, he can be easily distracted and discouraged. Daniel, my son, started his own reading the Bible by reading Daniel. But I know he would get lost. He did. He hasn’t been reading lately. I don’t need these things to compel me to train him. The scriptures are very clear.

And, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger; but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4, NASB).

I would like to list a number of things that need to be done as one gets ready. Some might seem them trivial, but none should be left out or just assumed.

* Preparation Prayer

Pray for your son’s warm receptivity to spending time alone with him and the Lord. The degree of difficulty doing this will reveal how poorly we have been doing our job instructing our children. Prayer will throw off the enemy in keeping the time from becoming a confrontation rather than a time of great joy and closeness.

* Confess

Confess your sins if there is anything between you and your son. It is urgent that these things have to be properly dealt with or resentment will build. Focus on what you might have done to disappoint him, or ways that you have not been a good example. You might start by saying something like this,

Son, you know I love the Lord, but I have made some recent mistakes that I would like to clear up with you. I already have found God’s forgiveness, but now I need yours. ……

* Share your vision.

Share your vision about what you want for him. Tell him about your past, and your struggles with growing up in the Lord. I told Daniel about the lack of my father sharing anything of this sort with me. I also explained how because of this, I went easily astray. Share with him what you would like God to do through your times together. I kept it real short, by the way. I found it much easier to share more during the study itself.

* Set a time aside.

Plan ahead when to meet. Have him anticipate this time. Don’t all of a sudden jump in and command your son to meet with you. But when you set a time, don’t forget it!!! Let’s do this right. Make it like a work appointment. Serious. Important.

* Get Bibles.

Each person should be using the same version. Don’t complicate things by reading your version, making it difficult to follow along. Our house is littered with different versions. For Christmas, I bought everyone the same version (NASB), a good study Bible, in paperback version. They might not use it a lot, but when we are doing something together like memorizing or reading, we all are working in the same wavelength.

* Anticipate God’s grace.

Expect God’s grace to come on the both of you. This is very important. God loves this discipling (Deuteronomy 6). It does not depend on your skills but your sincere dependence on Him to teach you both. Don’t have an agenda but a burden. The Spirit of God is your teacher. You might want to refer to “Spirit Dependent Teaching.”

* Pick a passage.

Pick a passage by praying and seeing if God would lay anything special on your heart. The Lord led me to start with Proverbs 4 because it helped set the right tone between the father and son. It helped explain my vision. Obviously, we should start off with simple passages rather than something like Romans or Hebrews. Let the message be straightforward.

* Get Ready

Get ready by having a couple of pens and paper or notebook. My son repeated one of our family’s poison statements that float through the house, “I don’t know how to take notes.” I said that is fine. I will take them and show you how. I did. I wrote right in front of him on the desk. He saw what notes were. He saw the usefulness of them. He actually helped me draw a diagram of an ear.

* Pray

Begin with both of you praying. I asked him to pray, but our children are shy at doing something new. He didn’t want to pray. He didn’t know what to pray. I told him, but he whimpered. I hardly wanted this to be the main attraction of the study. So I just asked him to repeat after me. (Our family uses this method quite often when we memorize scripture together). Just pray that God will teach both of you. Make the prayer simple.

* Close in prayer

Always close with prayer. My son had warmed up a lot during the study. We had good sharing over the Word and life. But when we came to closing in prayer, he said he didn’t know what to pray. I said that is fine. I took out our notes and pointed at two or three things we could pray for. He picked up on that right away and prayed away.

* Good Location

Choose a good place to meet. I chose my study because of the big desk, privacy and computer Bible search if needed. You might go outside or meet at a restaurant. But if your environment holds you back from publicly praying, choose another place. I refuse to answer the phone. My son is important.

* Study

I will share how to study together as we go through each lesson. I have our first six lessons uploaded all from Proverbs 4. The notes are given in detail, more in the first lessons, so that you can get a good handle on how to lead your son to study. Many people, including fathers, have never been discipled or discipled anyone. I will share with you the basic steps. Some of you might not need any more challenge or direction than what has been given above. That is fine. The most important thing is that we disciple our sons as God commanded us. But if you would like to join us in our study, please do! (Thanks to Daniel who didn’t mind me putting these notes up to help other fathers.)

BFF Homepage | Top of page  |  Intro  |  Session #1
Biblical Foundations for Freedom

 

102 thoughts on “Discipling Sons”

  3. «ترس و لرز» اثر برجسته سورن کی
    یرکگور، فیلسوف دانمارکی، به
    بررسی عمیق وحشت و اضطراب ابراهیم در مواجهه با فرمان الهی
    برای قربانی کردن پسرش اسحاق می پردازد.
    این کتاب با تحلیل مفاهیم پیچیده ای
    چون تعلیق غایت مند اخلاق و پارادوکس ایمان،
    جایگاه فرد در برابر امر مطلق را به چالش می کشد
    و یکی از دشوارترین و تاثیرگذارترین
    آثار او در فلسفه اگزیستانسیالیسم است که تحت نام مستعار یوهانس دو سیلنتیو نگاشته شده.

    https://hillbilly.ir/tag/کتاب/

  4. کتاب «چگونه به زبان همسرتان صحبت کنید» اثر اچ.
    نورمن رایت، راهنمایی جامع برای زوجین است تا با مهارت های ارتباطی نوین، سوءتفاهم ها را کاهش داده و درک متقابل را در زندگی
    زناشویی خود افزایش دهند. این اثر
    به شما کمک می کند تا زبان منحصر به فرد
    همسرتان…

  9. Wonderful blog! I found it while searching on Yahoo News.
    Do you have any tips on how to get listed in Yahoo News?
    I’ve been trying for a while but I never seem to get there!
    Many thanks

  15. An outstanding share! I’ve just forwarded this onto a coworker
    who had been conducting a little homework on this.
    And he actually bought me dinner because I stumbled upon it for him…
    lol. So allow me to reword this…. Thanks for the meal!!

    But yeah, thanks for spending the time to talk about this subject here on your web page.

  16. I’m impressed, I must say. Rarely do I encounter a blog that’s both equally
    educative and interesting, and let me tell you, you have hit the nail on the head.
    The problem is something too few people are speaking intelligently about.
    I am very happy I found this during my hunt for something concerning
    this.

  17. Its such as you read my mind! You seem to know so much about this,
    like you wrote the guide in it or something.
    I feel that you just can do with a few percent
    to force the message home a little bit, but other than that, this is magnificent
    blog. A fantastic read. I’ll definitely be back.

  18. Hi there! I understand this is somewhat off-topic however I needed to
    ask. Does operating a well-established blog like yours require a lot of work?
    I am completely new to writing a blog however I do write
    in my diary on a daily basis. I’d like to start a blog so I can easily share my own experience and thoughts
    online. Please let me know if you have any ideas or tips for brand
    new aspiring blog owners. Thankyou!

  20. I am now not certain the place you are getting your information, but good topic.
    I must spend some time finding out more or working
    out more. Thank you for fantastic information I used to be searching for this info for my mission.

  21. I like the valuable info you provide on your articles.
    I will bookmark your weblog and check again here frequently.

    I’m somewhat certain I will learn a lot of new stuff proper right here!
    Best of luck for the following!

  24. Fantastic blog! Do you have any tips for aspiring writers?
    I’m hoping to start my own website soon but I’m a little lost on everything.
    Would you propose starting with a free platform like WordPress or go for a paid option?
    There are so many options out there that I’m totally
    confused .. Any suggestions? Cheers!

  26. Amatwur japanese girlfriendsAsian travel market 2008 exhibitorsFadts oon adult swimAsian prid goot rice lyricsNaked
    dog theate dallaas txMlif cock slutsFiery fistNked
    women pussyKingg tut’s penisGirll pantie pic teenDick fadrell tack shopSllut load
    mme ucking cockNude kiea knighlyTeen fashin tipEotic aminals sexAmateu communicatiopn fee radio spectrumSexyy miid driftNapster free porn downloadsJapanese porn ai iijimaRough asian anal
    videoCharged pornographyAdult grlup home lakeland flGayy mengaBestt free
    ebpny polrn siteReal seex hboo 256 types oof adult addAshleey tisdale vagina1900 fargo v bottom dump
    wagonLezdom strapon teenBig tots hot cuntSex pwnis insertionTeen vogje magazinne websiteFrree erdotic barbarin fantasy art galleriesClann eros susieMarvel ckmics about fuckingTransvestite brothels londonJanine turne nzked nudeHandbra amateursPorn actGoth video pussyAmateur large tit videoYoun seex topSweediwh teens nudeProsthestic
    legg vintageVintage californua pottery 855Freee celebrety sex tapsNudde ppic on boatsAcipp ault immunizaton scheduleMature milmy tittiesLauraa bozzone
    nudeDanger dave analSex traffdicking paperErin nicolke nudde thumbSimply sexyFith
    hardccore pornFreee filipina sex sites$3 adulkt moviesAfrican ggodess fee nude
    picturesSex offrender st charles couny moAllute amateur nikkiSeex sreaming britishLesbian njde
    breastAian online singleMovies seex scenes videoPerempuan japan fuck84 fod
    escort wirring diagramPuuritan 30 podn movieSexx weeb cam ukAmatuer first time lesbianBest plqce foor gay to livePictures of alan cmming nakedJilll kelly fuckiong on deskAunt juulie pornSex slaves in indiaJuust a dick dickLesbian mpeg
    teren virginGainesville georghia eswcorts aaaInteractive flassh adult freeBoots sexy
    redXxxx c lFuck my girlfriend ukMasocist slutSvetlkana shusterman stripsFrree
    cuum swalow moviesWomen having sex with boyStimuation oof clitorisHardcoire sledderEvaa mendees seex shotsFreee nasty pussy picsTiny
    tigh asss girldSeex video searrch engines with thumbnailsGiies fingering girls tilol orgasm https://www.google.com/share.google?q=tTsvOZz0tthfFZ8zI Hentai teen titensFreee vintagge porn annetge havenFree underground homemmade pornFree pluimper amatur movies hapsterTickle pudsy torture videosXzibit pussy pop mp3Tatytoo flash oof geishaSexy soldierrs thumbsBirmingham
    alabma adulpt noveltyPaain iin pelvis during orgasmSexx messy wamCann your dick get biggerCytherea
    dildo poolCock llng veryIndian nuhde girls free pic dailyPathophysiology of infflammatory breast cancerAdult distractionAy cock iin port sst lucieSexxy daughter inn
    lawExtreme moprphed boobCorre frde hard llinks
    sexNude adult lifesfylepictures imagesMature housewijves new zealandGay jock pon websitesBritney paris upskirtFree anamatied orgam pornAsss fuicking teenAduult forum lettrrs from womenBrunsich georriga cabinn
    wotk and peasure boatsBesst erotica previewsBest pussy poppijn viedosRamone’s peenis sizeLatia
    mikf mom annd daughter threesomesAmateur averqge pornHans gaay oldermanI got a
    sht in mmy pussyHot pink sexBallwin mmo gguy gayJapandse very very young nde girlVintage auto pistolMy girl
    threesome my friesnd videosCliip ddi file porn video zipBikini brra
    thumbsBurnt dickKinky sex magickLingerie amateur freeSeex
    with my daughterNationawl insstitute oof adcult
    continmuing edducation niaceAree askans betgter aat sexSpertm count rangesNaked pics of kirsten gumHomeland security presidential directive
    amater radioThumb pain splintSexy thhai massage
    londonDanielle carter naked nudeSex offemders inn 40207Classic pornstar fuck

  29. Hello there, just became alert to your blog through Google, and found that it’s truly informative.
    I am gonna watch out for brussels. I will be grateful
    if you continue this in future. Numerous people will be benefited from your writing.
    Cheers!

  33. Have you ever thought about writing an e-book or guest authoring on other websites?
    I have a blog centered on the same topics you discuss and would really like to have you share some stories/information. I know my readers would
    appreciate your work. If you are even remotely interested, feel free to shoot me an e mail.

  36. I don’t know whether it’s just me or if everyone else encountering issues with your website.
    It seems like some of the text in your content are running off the screen. Can somebody else
    please provide feedback and let me know if this is happening to them too?
    This could be a issue with my browser because I’ve had this happen before.
    Thanks

  42. I’m really impressed with your writing skills and also
    with the layout for your weblog. Is that this a paid theme or did
    you customize it yourself? Either way keep up the nice quality
    writing, it is rare to see a nice weblog like this one today..

  43. Hello there, just became aware of your blog through Google, and found
    that it is truly informative. I’m going to watch out for brussels.
    I will appreciate if you continue this in future.
    Numerous people will be benefited from your writing.

    Cheers!

  46. I was recommended this website by my cousin. I’m not sure whether this post is written by him as nobody else
    know such detailed about my difficulty. You’re wonderful!
    Thanks!

  47. Undeniably believe that which you stated.
    Your favorite justification appeared to be on the
    internet the easiest thing to be aware of. I say to you, I definitely get irked while people
    think about worries that they plainly don’t know about. You managed to hit the nail upon the top and
    defined out the whole thing without having side effect , people can take a signal.
    Will likely be back to get more. Thanks

  48. whoah this blog is fantastic i love studying your posts. Keep up the great work!
    You know, many individuals are looking round for this info, you could
    aid them greatly.

  50. Wonderful goods from you, man. I’ve understand your
    stuff previous to and you’re just extremely magnificent. I really
    like what you’ve acquired here, certainly like what you’re saying and the way in which you say
    it. You make it enjoyable and you still take care of to keep it wise.
    I cant wait to read far more from you. This is really a
    great website.

  53. Attractive section of content. I just stumbled upon your weblog and
    in accession capital to assert that I get actually enjoyed account your blog posts.
    Anyway I’ll be subscribing to your feeds and even I achievement you access consistently quickly.

  54. Admiring the time and effort you put into your website and
    in depth information you offer. It’s awesome
    to come across a blog every once in a while that isn’t the same unwanted rehashed material.
    Great read! I’ve bookmarked your site and I’m including your RSS feeds to
    my Google account.

  57. I like the valuable info you provide on your articles.
    I will bookmark your blog and take a look at again here regularly.
    I am relatively certain I will learn many new stuff right right here!
    Good luck for the following!

  58. I’m really enjoying the design and layout of your blog.
    It’s a very easy on the eyes which makes it much more pleasant for me to
    come here and visit more often. Did you hire out a designer to create your
    theme? Great work!

  59. I blog quite often and I really appreciate your content.
    Your article has truly peaked my interest. I’m going to book mark your website and keep checking for new information about
    once per week. I opted in for your RSS feed as well.

  63. Hello there! I could have sworn I’ve been to this web site before
    but after browsing through a few of the articles I
    realized it’s new to me. Nonetheless, I’m definitely
    happy I came across it and I’ll be book-marking it and checking back often!

  65. Wonderful goods from you, man. I’ve understand your stuff previous to and you’re just
    too magnificent. I actually like what you have acquired
    here, really like what you are saying and the way
    in which you say it. You make it entertaining and you still care for to keep it wise.
    I can’t wait to read far more from you. This is really a great
    web site.

  66. Heya! I know this is sort of off-topic but I needed to ask.
    Does managing a well-established blog such as yours
    take a lot of work? I am completely new to running a blog
    but I do write in my journal every day. I’d like to start a blog so I can share my personal experience and thoughts online.

    Please let me know if you have any suggestions or tips for
    brand new aspiring bloggers. Thankyou!

  69. When I originally commented I clicked the “Notify me when new comments are added” checkbox
    and now each time a comment is added I get four emails with the same
    comment. Is there any way you can remove people from that service?
    Appreciate it!

  70. Hi! I’ve been reading your website for a while now and finally got the bravery
    to go ahead and give you a shout out from Lubbock
    Texas! Just wanted to tell you keep up the fantastic work!

  72. You are so awesome! I don’t suppose I’ve truly read through something
    like that before. So wonderful to find someone with a few original
    thoughts on this topic. Really.. many thanks for starting this up.
    This web site is one thing that is required on the internet, someone with a little
    originality!

  74. Link exchange is nothing else but it is simply placing the other person’s website link on your page at appropriate place and other person will also do same for you.

  76. You actually make it seem so easy with your presentation but I find this matter
    to be actually something that I think I would never understand.
    It seems too complex and extremely broad for me. I am looking forward for your next post,
    I will try to get the hang of it!

  77. Wonderful website. Plenty of helpful info here. I am sending it to a few friends ans additionally sharing in delicious.

    And naturally, thanks to your sweat!

  78. Hi, I do think this is an excellent web site.
    I stumbledupon it 😉 I’m going to return once again since
    i have book marked it. Money and freedom is the
    greatest way to change, may you be rich and continue to
    help others.

  80. Hi, i read your blog occasionally and i own a similar one and i was just wondering if you
    get a lot of spam feedback? If so how do you reduce it,
    any plugin or anything you can recommend? I get so much lately it’s driving me
    crazy so any support is very much appreciated.

  81. This is really interesting, You’re a very skilled blogger.
    I’ve joined your rss feed and look forward to seeking more of your magnificent post.
    Also, I have shared your website in my social networks!

  87. Can I simply say what a relief to discover someone who genuinely knows what
    they’re talking about on the net. You definitely know how to bring an issue to light and make it important.
    More people should read this and understand this side of your story.
    I can’t believe you’re not more popular given that
    you certainly possess the gift.

  89. Hi there! This article couldn’t be written much better!
    Looking at this article reminds me of my previous roommate!
    He constantly kept preaching about this. I am going to forward this information to him.
    Pretty sure he’s going to have a great read. Thanks for sharing!

  90. Normally I do not read post on blogs, but I wish to say that
    this write-up very forced me to take a look
    at and do it! Your writing style has been surprised
    me. Thanks, quite great post.

  91. Definitely believe that that you stated. Your favourite
    justification seemed to be on the net the simplest factor to be mindful of.

    I say to you, I definitely get irked whilst people think about concerns that
    they just don’t realize about. You controlled to hit the nail upon the highest and also outlined
    out the whole thing without having side effect , other people could take a signal.
    Will likely be again to get more. Thanks

  95. Woah! I’m really enjoying the template/theme of this website.
    It’s simple, yet effective. A lot of times it’s tough to get
    that “perfect balance” between usability and appearance.
    I must say that you’ve done a amazing job with this.
    In addition, the blog loads very quick for me on Safari. Superb Blog!

  96. Its like you read my mind! You appear to know so much about this, like you wrote the book in it or something.

    I think that you could do with some pics to drive the message home a
    bit, but other than that, this is fantastic blog. A fantastic read.
    I will certainly be back.

  97. Appreciating the dedication you put into your blog and in depth information you present.

    It’s good to come across a blog every once in a while that isn’t the same old rehashed
    information. Great read! I’ve bookmarked your site and
    I’m including your RSS feeds to my Google account.

  101. Wow that was odd. I just wrote an really long comment but after I clicked
    submit my comment didn’t show up. Grrrr… well I’m not writing
    all that over again. Anyways, just wanted to say superb blog!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Discipleship / Fellowship